Handsome Man (Medium)

  Excerpt from Black Girls Guide: How to Find & Choose the Right Man: How to Find & Choose the Right Man: Standard #1: He is not a player. In other words, he is mature, honest and ready for a long-term committed relationship. This man knows how to have a physically and emotionally intimate relationship […]

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One Woman Many Men (Small)

The complete saying goes something like this, “There are plenty of fish in the ocean.” It is a wise proverb meant to illuminate the notion of abundance when it comes to potential relationships.  While it can be a healthy way to rebound from relationship failure, it is not a saying that one should use often […]

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Erotic Passion

It is wonderful thing when you are content in your relationship and so comfortable that you can do things together that you would normally do in private.  He walks around the house naked and she sucks her thumb when they watch scary movies. Yet, there are some things that are better left to your own […]

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Grand Opening Of Seamless After Hours Nightclub - Arrivals

Performed by Ralph Tresvant Listen baby Don’t even waste your tears on an insensitive man There’s better things for ya I mean, what you really need is someone who cares Someone who’s gonna be there for you Someone like me baby, someone with sensitivity, ooh Do you understand? Do you feel it? Hey, ooh, nah, […]

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Black Cupid

The idea of Cupid is generally a European construct, although there are a surprising number of cupid sites for Africans and those in the Caribbean.  I managed to find a few images of Black Cupid (see above).  Blackandsexytv.com has a show called Hello Cupid. Wikipedia says: In classical mythology, Cupid (Latin Cupido, meaning “desire”) is […]

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Gift Giving Couple

Love is a beautiful thing and any excuse to celebrate love is usually just fine with me.  However, I understand why many people are not inspired to celebrate this famous day of love, Valentine’s Day, every February 14th. Here are five reasons why I would understand: 1. The origins of Valentine’s Day are not consistent […]

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Sexy Couple

Is it love or something else? Black girl, Black boy, Black women, and Black men fetishes have been around since people of African descent were “discovered” by other races, i.e., a long time.  Our collective history of human trafficking and enslavement has perpetuated sexual fascination and abuse around the globe, notably in the United States […]

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When you are single, looking for a quality relationship, you don’t usually want everyone with an Internet connection to be able to see that you are, plus get intimate details about you and your process.  Love-seeking is a personal and private endeavor. When African American Matchmaking began its online membership community last month, some of […]

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