Left to your own devices, you have not been able to find your match. So, there is something that you are doing incorrectly or not doing at all. That does not mean that it is your fault, but it is your life and therefore, your responsibility.
Maya Angelou said, “When you know better, you do better.”
Coaching will help you identify what these issues might be. Most matchmakers offer coaching services because they will ultimately benefit the client in both the process and the outcome. Matchmakers want you to find a match as much as you do.
Often, there are blockages to finding your match that you may or may not be aware of. For example, you may be unconsciously sabotaging your efforts, not see potential matches right in front of you, or be unrealistic in your expectations. Or your love awareness may be too low to vibrate and attract the love you need. Maybe you have a non-negotiable “rule” that defies logic. Like many of us who have loved and lost, you may also still be healing from heartbreak and/or issues with trust.
Take the time to get relationship advice and coaching. It is worth it to create a solid foundation for your happiness.