What were our relationships like back in the day? In Africa, we had loving unions that produced great empires.
The complete saying goes something like this, “There are plenty of fish in the ocean.” It is a wise proverb meant to illuminate the notion of abundance when it comes to potential relationships. While it can be a healthy way to rebound from relationship failure, it is not a saying that one should use often […]
It is wonderful thing when you are content in your relationship and so comfortable that you can do things together that you would normally do in private. He walks around the house naked and she sucks her thumb when they watch scary movies. Yet, there are some things that are better left to your own […]
Performed by Ralph Tresvant Listen baby Don’t even waste your tears on an insensitive man There’s better things for ya I mean, what you really need is someone who cares Someone who’s gonna be there for you Someone like me baby, someone with sensitivity, ooh Do you understand? Do you feel it? Hey, ooh, nah, […]
The idea of Cupid is generally a European construct, although there are a surprising number of cupid sites for Africans and those in the Caribbean. I managed to find a few images of Black Cupid (see above). Blackandsexytv.com has a show called Hello Cupid. Wikipedia says: In classical mythology, Cupid (Latin Cupido, meaning “desire”) is […]
Love is a beautiful thing and any excuse to celebrate love is usually just fine with me. However, I understand why many people are not inspired to celebrate this famous day of love, Valentine’s Day, every February 14th. Here are five reasons why I would understand: 1. The origins of Valentine’s Day are not consistent […]