Beautiful Black Couple Smilling

First, you must GET STARTED to apply for African American Matchmaking membership. When you become a member of African American Matchmaking, you join African American Matchmaking’s national registry.  This means we can match you with eligible men and women.  Your information is confidential and nothing is shared with the public. Unlike matchmaking shows on television, matchmaking is not […]

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Virtues Project

Integrity is  living by your highest values.  It is being honest and sincere.  Integrity helps you listen to your conscience, to do the right thing, and to tell the truth.  You act with integrity when your words and actions match.  Integrity gives  you self-respect and a  peaceful heart. You are practicing integrity when you: *  […]

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It looks like Facebook is going to get into the dating business.  Maybe before that occurs, a class should be given regarding Facebook etiquette and dating.  So many problems could be avoided!  Etiquette is defined as socially appropriate behavior.  Here are a few Do’s & Don’ts for using Facebook to date: DO choose your “friends” […]

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Couple Beach

  African American Matchmaking serves the entire United States, including the territories of Hawaii, Alaska, U.S. Virgin Islands, and Puerto Rico.  Our administrative offices are based in St. John, U.S. Virgin Islands.  Known as an island of romance, St. John aka Love City, was appropriately nicknamed based on its unspoiled natural beauty. Would you like to visit us […]

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 Rose Jasmine Honeysuckle Orange Lemon Peppermint Gardenia Lime Ylang-Ylang Rosemary Use these natural scents creatively on your body, in your home, or anywhere you want to increase love awareness and sensual pleasures.

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Black Man

“A man wants peace in his house and in his relationships. Intimacy is important, too. However without peace, intimacy becomes a challenge and that is when the man’s mind and eyes start to wander. In the spirit of keeping it real, if a woman of any age desires to have and build a relationship with […]

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Couple on Grass

Being in love gives us a natural high.  It has now been confirmed that being in love relieves pain in a way that is as powerful as morphine.  In a recent Stanford University study, 15 study participants were asked to hold a temperature probe while looking at a picture of their lovers.  The participants who looked at someone […]

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Keith Hammond

            Keith Hammond’s book, Romance 101:  Class is in Session, is dedicated to “the women who want to know their men” and to “the men who need to know their women.”  On page 89, he suggests creating a Romance List, a list of the romantic things you want your mate to do to please you, likely the things […]

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Couple man with cell phone

It’s easy:  just remember the Golden Rule of doing unto others as you would like them to do unto you.  When you are dating and getting to know someone better, these simple rules will be helpful.  Remember, you only get one chance to make a first impression.  And technology is no substitute for human companionship.  […]

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black couple on bed

Whether it’s your first date or the two of you have been together for awhile, make sure you don’t do any of these activities, which some of our African American Matchmaking members have listed as their pet peeves–extremely annoying and irritating behavior that they can’t stand: Smoking Bad breath Arrogance Inappropriate dress Nail-biting Being mean Being […]

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See our Welcome page where you can find more information, including links to interviews with African American Matchmaker, Angela D. Coleman

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