Most African American Matchmaking members lead very busy lives with successful careers, family and community activities.  This lifestyle allows time to date and be in a relationship, but does not leave a lot of time to search extensively for the right partner.  Meeting someone on your own is like looking for a needle in a haystack!  Some of our […]

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When it comes to finding a partner, there may be a lot of fish in the sea. But what if you don’t have time to swim with every school, or you live in over-fished waters? Or maybe you just have a hard time with the whole bait-and-tackle thing. In any case, catching the right one […]

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Date night is a special time for just the two of you to enjoy each other.  Suggestion:  have a date night as least one night each week.  It doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you commit to doing something TOGETHER! Date night ideas: Dinner Movie Drinks, snacks Sporting event Concert Park Exercise Nightclub […]

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Those of us who have positive sexual experiences knows that sex is a healthy way of expressing love and affection.  It is that extra spark that keep things going!  When it’s good, sex also has restorative powers, stimulating your brain and body in unimaginable ways.   It can help you refocus your mind, increase your love energy, be […]

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To a large extent, most of us are “damaged goods,” meaning we had experiences that have scarred us and still affect us today.  Take time to heal. When you work on your healing, you allow yourself to be an imperfectly glorious being.  This is the key to self-acceptance, which increases feelings of self-worth and self-esteem.  […]

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Many of us have fathers who were simply not there in our lives.  We grew up with them physically outside of the home and/or mentally and emotionally unavailable.  This void has affected the way we respond to the opposite sex in our adult romantic relationships. As adults, we have to let go and move on, […]

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Is kissing a lost art?  Common in the courtship phase of dating, kissing helps you bond with your mate and has long been seen as a warm-up activity for sexual intercourse.  Women enjoy kissing more than men, right? Not true! Researchers from The Kinsey Institute in Bloomington, Indiana were surprised to find that kissing, cuddling […]

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Some of us are so particular (yes, picky!) about whom we date and spend quality time with. Of course, we should be.  No one should settle. But when is being picky just too much? When being picky interferes with our ability to find dates and committed, long-lasting partners, it can lead to frustration, loneliness and resentment.  Maybe […]

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I Want To Know What Love Is                      Foreigner                       Songwriters: PARKS, ALEX / TZUKE, JUDIE / KEARNS, GRAHAM PATRICK I gotta take a little time A little time to think things over I better read between the lines In case I need it when I’m older Aaaah woah-ah-aah Now this mountain I must climb Feels […]

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