Date often. Dating gives you and your person of interest the opportunity to get to know each other better. Don’t try to be perfect. Try to be your natural, best self. Date one-on-one. Dating used to be the first step of a clearly defined, socially-created mating ritual. Group dates are not really “dates” in the traditional sense. […]
The last year was rough for many of us. As you recharge and get ready to begin anew in the New Year, consider your relationship with your significant other, or lack of. What do you want to change? What are you going to do differently? What is your vision for the future? African American Matchmaking […]
Allow yourself time to grieve, feel the disappointment of unmet expectations and unfulfilled dreams. Now that you are no longer together, go within to find strength to stay away. Start planning for your future: romantically, professionally, personally. Make a list of things that make you feel good, your Feel Good list. Everyday, try to do […]
We spend time and intimate space with our boyfriends and girlfriends, but how well do they know us, really? Five ways to tell is your partner really knows you: Whether it costs a lot or a little, s/he knows the perfect gift to give you at any given time, holidays and non-holidays. Even though they […]
Affection is the expression of care. It symbolizes security, protection, comfort and approval — vital ingredients in any relationship. When one spouse is affectionate toward the other, the following messages are sent: You are important to me. I will care for you and protect you. I’m concerned about the problems you face and will be […]
Everyone has an opinion: your family, friends, coworkers, even strangers. When it comes to love and relationships, above all, trust your intuion. Your intuition is that gut instinct, inner voice, spiritual guidance which tells you what feels right and what feels wrong, who drains you and who uplifts you, what you feel obligated to do vs. what […]
I applaud the brothers who are doing well, often unseen and unheard. Thank you, fellas, for giving us balance!